New England Coaching Services
We Offer Coaching for~
Trauma, Life Crisis
Addiction, Mental Health, Infidelity & Couples
understanding Your Story
It can take time to make sense of your story. Processing happens one fragment at a time which is why people with high amounts of trauma tell the same story again and again. They are trying to make sense of their experience and assimilate it into their identity, but may struggle to cope or even fathom the difficulty of their reality. As you pick up the pieces of your experience one memory at a time, your heart and mind will affirm what is real and what you need to feel safe and secure. Healing takes time. In wanting the pain to end often we guess timelines of healing. The truth is that it takes as long as it takes.
God is our Wonderful Counselor (Isaiah 9:6) and infinite enough to hold space for our anger, sadness, frustration, disappointment, uncertainty, and the sticky situations that do not have quick or easy answers.
May He guide you through your process
Meet Our Staff
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
- BSN - Rivier University
- RN license with the state of NH
- CPC with APSAT-
- C-SASI certified with A Door of Hope (ADOH)
- ACSTH (ACC Path) Certified Life Coach With World Coach Institute
- BrainSpotting Clinician
- Emotionally Focused Therapy Trained
I have always had a heart to walk with those who are hurting. I feel that emotional pain is not meant
- BSN - Rivier University
- RN license with the state of NH
- CPC with APSAT-
- C-SASI certified with A Door of Hope (ADOH)
- ACSTH (ACC Path) Certified Life Coach With World Coach Institute
- BrainSpotting Clinician
- Emotionally Focused Therapy Trained
I have always had a heart to walk with those who are hurting. I feel that emotional pain is not meant to be pushed away, ignored, or rationalized. It is meant to be processed and honored as part of the human experience.
Some of the most difficult emotions are labeled as bad and sinful. They are neither. They are indicators like those on the dashboard of a car telling us that something is not working. When listened to these emotions can direct us towards emotional and physical safety, new boundaries, grief work, and leaning into and allowing support.
I know how lonely and difficult it can be to labor through these challenges. As Robert Frost said, " The way out, is through." Attempting to skip or ignore them can lead to prolonged pain.
“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome. Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s our greatest measure of courage.” Brené
Andrea Rogers
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
Andrea Rogers, BS, MS, CPC-c is a Board Certified Life Coach who is passionate about helping people reach their full potential in life. She loves coming alongside men and women on the journey towards wholeness. Andrea has over 20 years experience working in developing people to become the best version of themselves. She is trained by A
Andrea Rogers, BS, MS, CPC-c is a Board Certified Life Coach who is passionate about helping people reach their full potential in life. She loves coming alongside men and women on the journey towards wholeness. Andrea has over 20 years experience working in developing people to become the best version of themselves. She is trained by APSATS using the MPTM (Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model) that was so instrumental in her own healing from betrayal trauma. Andrea is also a Bible teacher, a ministry leader and proud mom of 4 beautiful children.
Rebecca Maestas
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
Rebecca Maestas
PROFESSIONAL CREDENTIALS:
- I attended graduate school at New Mexico Highlands University receiving a Master in Social
- Work, Clinical Practice. My undergraduate focus is in Psychology, receiving a BA in Psychology
- from Fort Lewis College, Durango Colorado.
- Licensed in the state of New Mexico as a Master of Social Work, clinical practice.
- Certifi
PROFESSIONAL CREDENTIALS:
- I attended graduate school at New Mexico Highlands University receiving a Master in Social
- Work, Clinical Practice. My undergraduate focus is in Psychology, receiving a BA in Psychology
- from Fort Lewis College, Durango Colorado.
- Licensed in the state of New Mexico as a Master of Social Work, clinical practice.
- Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), specialized training (APSATS).
- Certified Personal Life Coach candidate (CPLCc),
- Professional Christian Coaching Institute (PCCI).
- Certified SYMBIS Assessment Facilitator
- Pre-marital coaching and improving marriage relationships.
- Member of the American Association for Christian Counselors (AACC)
- Member of the International Coach Federation (ICF)
Providing HOPE & HEALING for Individuals & Couples Restoration after infidelity
You can wake up and find life has taken an unexpected turn. You’ve seen the warning signs; a rattling
noise in the engine that you’ve been meaning to have checked and suddenly you’re stranded at the side
of the road. Relationship issues can be just like this.
What areas of your life are you hoping would disappear, ignoring, or not even aware of?
Your heart shattered when you discovered the one person who you trusted and should have your back,
has betrayed you. You were gaslighted and lied to you repeatedly over the years just so he can keep his
secrets. You may be overwhelmed with guilt, shame, anger, and fear.
I know what that feels like, because I’ve been there too.
I hear your heart and you are not alone. I can help you navigate through the trauma of relationship
betrayal from spouse’s sex/porn addiction, infidelity, or compulsive sexual behavior. Together we will
find Safety and Stabilization, Hope and Healing.
I am a Licensed Clinical Therapist, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and Life Coach. I am trained in
trauma, attachment, and life crisis issues. I can help you discover who you are, what’s important to you,
and where you want to go from here.
I will walk along side you on the journey of Becoming You
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Richard Butler
Rebecca Maestas
I am passionate about empowering people on their journey through difficult circumstances and relationships. I believe that pain can be an invitation to grow, and I provide a safe space for my clients to process their thoughts and emotions, and discover new things about themselves. I know what it feels like to be blind-sided by life, and I
I am passionate about empowering people on their journey through difficult circumstances and relationships. I believe that pain can be an invitation to grow, and I provide a safe space for my clients to process their thoughts and emotions, and discover new things about themselves. I know what it feels like to be blind-sided by life, and I know what it feels like to be exhausted from trying too hard. I'd love to come alongside you and help you find a new framework for moving forward.
Coaching provides a focused 1:1 conversation that results in deeper self-awareness and an invitation to take action to reshape your life around that learning.
I value honesty, even when it's scary. I value faith, even when it's hard to trust. I value family, even when it's messy.
Richard Butler
Richard Butler
Richard Butler
Coaching and Mentoring for Men
Richard’s Credentials
- Certified Professional Coach (ICF)
- CPC-c APSATS
- Certified Mentor (Bravehearts University)
- Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner
- Post Graduate Certificate Education
- Bachelor of Science (Hons)
- Trained in Sex Addiction (American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy)
- Trained in Intimac
Coaching and Mentoring for Men
Richard’s Credentials
- Certified Professional Coach (ICF)
- CPC-c APSATS
- Certified Mentor (Bravehearts University)
- Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner
- Post Graduate Certificate Education
- Bachelor of Science (Hons)
- Trained in Sex Addiction (American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy)
- Trained in Intimacy Anorexia (American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy)
- Working towards level 4 Counselling Diploma
Richard uses his first-hand experience of the challenges of healing from problematic sexual behaviours, professional knowledge and skills to support men seeking sobriety, recovery, healing and freedom. In addition, Richard with help your deal with their partner’s trauma.