New England Coaching Services LLC
Trauma, Life Crisis,
Addiction, Betrayal Trauma Support, Sex Addiction Recovery Coaching, Infidelity Repair & Brainspotting
Why Get Help?
Reaching out for help is hard. Loved ones and friends may tell you that your problem is not that bad or that there are worse things in life, but deep down you know that your quality of life could be so much better.
I have been there! Struggles and challenges have left me, at times, feeling as though I would never find my smile again. I forgot what my laugh sounded like. Not the fake one I can produce when I need to, but the one I can't stop or control when something is hysterical. I came to a place in life where I was not willing to accept good enough or not that bad. I wanted to live fully and wholly knowing who I am and how to be in healthy relationship.
Going on a journey to heal is scary. I had fear that others would judge me for reaching out. Some mental health helpers were not equip to understand the complexities of emotional trauma or able to recognize its hallmark signs. Others wanted desperately to help but did not have the tools or resources themselves.
Eventually, I found some amazing healers and fell in love with a process of guiding others through a framework of trauma support and healing.
I discovered Brainspotting and quickly realized this expedites healing for individuals that recognize their trauma but are powerless to stop their triggers. I use this process with couples who are unable to connect after traumatic events or having gone through disclosure and wanting to reintegrate connection.
If you have been stuck and not able to heal I have hope for you and hope is a powerful thing. Don't give up on yourself and your brain, body, and soul's ability to heal no matter how complex the journey may be.
"I have had an amazing experience from the beginning. Julie is an Angel on earth. She gave me all the tools I needed to get better. The group has also been life changing. Brainspotting is unreal. Can’t say enough about it!" Sarah Bringhurst
" I feel more in control of my emotions and I am much better at reinforcing boundaries. I get to actually be present with my family. I give myself a lot more grace, and I feel like my "brain fog' from depression has nearly cleared up. Everybody should come see Julie. " Rachel Pinto-Martin
" I was referred to Julie St. Onge by a local therapist who mentioned that she was “her first pick” for who best to help me. I was in deep despair, pain, confusion and did not know what to do next or where to find support for the personal chaos going on in my life... I hit the jack pot with Julie, she was the life preserver thrown into the raging seas in my life. Her knowledge, compassion, experience and genuine care were apparent from the start. Julie was able to stick with me, to walk me through highs and lows, to continue offering flexible options and candid feedback with love and constant reminders of truth... I had lost myself without even realizing it, and found in Julie, a trusted confidante to navigate the journey back towards my whole health and well being. "
Melissa Raj
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Meet Our Staff
Julie St.Onge Founder of New England Coaching Services LLC & The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference
BSN Rivier University
ACC World Coach Institute
APSATS CPC
cSASI certified
Brainspot Trained
Julie received her Bachelors in Nursing from Rivier University graduating Summa. Her experienced entails working in the following nursing fields over the course of 20 years:
Labor & Delivery, Post Partum, Surgical & Circulating, Walk in Clinic, Surgical Day Center, and School Nursing. Julie attended the World Coach Institute where she obtained her Life Coach Certificate. She is BrainSpot Trained and has completed all phases for certification. Julie is currently working with a few Brainspot trainers to advance the proposed model of brainspotting for hurting couples.
Julie is APSATS & CSASI certified. She sits on the APSATS board of directors. Julie also Founder of The New England Betrayal Trauma Conference and New England Coaching Services. She has published Facilitating Disclosures: A Helpful Guide for Clinicians and Finding Healing Through The Betrayal Trauma Model for Covenant Eyes.
Julie heads up a team of eight coaches to facilitate disclosures, assist couples in the stabilization process, aid those struggling with addiction, and provide safety and stabilization for hurting partners.
“ I came to a place in life where I was not willing to accept good enough or not that bad… Don't give up on yourself and your soul's ability to heal no matter how complex the journey may be.”
Julie St.Onge
Andrea Rogers
Andrea Rogers, BS, MS, CPC-c is a Board Certified Life Coach who is passionate about helping people reach their full potential in life. She loves coming alongside men and women on the journey towards wholeness. Andrea has over 20 years experience working in developing people to become the best version of themselves. She is trained by APSATS using the MPTM (Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model) that was so instrumental in her own healing from betrayal trauma. Andrea is also a Bible teacher, a ministry leader and proud mom of 4 beautiful children.
Rebecca Maestas
PROFESSIONAL CREDENTIALS:
- I attended graduate school at New Mexico Highlands University receiving a Master in Social
- Work, Clinical Practice. My undergraduate focus is in Psychology, receiving a BA in Psychology
- from Fort Lewis College, Durango Colorado.
- Licensed in the state of New Mexico as a Master of Social Work, clinical practice.
- Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), specialized training (APSATS).
- Certified Personal Life Coach candidate (CPLCc),
- Professional Christian Coaching Institute (PCCI).
- Certified SYMBIS Assessment Facilitator
- Pre-marital coaching and improving marriage relationships.
- Member of the American Association for Christian Counselors (AACC)
- Member of the International Coach Federation (ICF)
Providing HOPE & HEALING for Individuals & Couples Restoration after infidelity
You can wake up and find life has taken an unexpected turn. You’ve seen the warning signs; a rattling
noise in the engine that you’ve been meaning to have checked and suddenly you’re stranded at the side
of the road. Relationship issues can be just like this.
What areas of your life are you hoping would disappear, ignoring, or not even aware of?
Your heart shattered when you discovered the one person who you trusted and should have your back,
has betrayed you. You were gaslighted and lied to you repeatedly over the years just so he can keep his
secrets. You may be overwhelmed with guilt, shame, anger, and fear.
I know what that feels like, because I’ve been there too.
I hear your heart and you are not alone. I can help you navigate through the trauma of relationship
betrayal from spouse’s sex/porn addiction, infidelity, or compulsive sexual behavior. Together we will
find Safety and Stabilization, Hope and Healing.
I am a Licensed Clinical Therapist, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and Life Coach. I am trained in
trauma, attachment, and life crisis issues. I can help you discover who you are, what’s important to you,
and where you want to go from here.
I will walk along side you on the journey of Becoming You
Karla Summey
I am passionate about empowering people on their journey through difficult circumstances and relationships. I believe that pain can be an invitation to grow, and I provide a safe space for my clients to process their thoughts and emotions, and discover new things about themselves. I know what it feels like to be blind-sided by life, and I know what it feels like to be exhausted from trying too hard. I'd love to come alongside you and help you find a new framework for moving forward.
Coaching provides a focused 1:1 conversation that results in deeper self-awareness and an invitation to take action to reshape your life around that learning.
I value honesty, even when it's scary. I value faith, even when it's hard to trust. I value family, even when it's messy.
Judee Alvarado
As a graduate of Simmons University, Boston, former homeschooling mother of 5 beautiful children, mother "in love" of two daughters in law, and a soon-to-be son in law, grandmother of 2, former ballerina at The Boston Ballet, teacher, small business owner, Founder and Director of “Grace & Glory School of Dance” (classical ballet), Co-Founder, Co-Director, & Vice Principal of Straight “A” Academy Private HIgh School and Education Center (of Bedford, NH), proficient Spanish speaker and translator, ILCT trained Life Coach, ADOH Trained Peer Facilitator, and aspiring author, Judee brings an unusual combination of skills to the table.
As someone who has survived decades of domestic violence, ongoing betrayal, and deep trauma bonding, along with a myriad of life-threatening health crises, Judee has gained valuable insight into trauma recovery work and has fought a long,hard battle for her own heart, mind, and soul. She has an unusual mixture of intensity and humor that keep her clients focused on the sometimes grueling work of healing while providing them ample opportunity to laugh and to find lasting joy along the way.
She believes that a Loving God has placed a piece of His own precious heart into each person she works with, and experiences unparalleled joy as her beloved clients heal and grow, daring to explore their indescribable worth to God. She rejoices as they become equipped with a tool box full of powerful resources, helping them to live balanced, healthy lives, find the support they need, and set healthy boundaries, all while keeping soft, vulnerable, and open hearts.
Her areas of specialty include, but are not limited to, Complex-PTSD (from ongoing trauma due to mental, emotional, psychological and/or physical abuse/domestic violence), betrayal and abandonment, divorce, custody battles, trauma-induced chronic illness, deconstruction and reconstruction of faith, spiritual abuse (at home and in church), parenting issues, anxiety and depression, addiction, family relatoinships, medical trauma, post-abortion depression, and more…
She has worked with people of all ages, and especially enjoys working with young people with whom she inevitably comes to share a precious bond.
Her mantra is:
“I can do no great thing for God; I can only do small things with great love…”
Saint Therese, the “LIttle Flower” of the “LIttle Way”
Amy Nagy, CPLC, CPC-c
I am a grateful follower of Jesus Christ, a mother to 4 beautiful children, and a homeschooling parent of 15 years. My passion for Life Coaching was born out of my own trials, and the Lord placed a fire in my heart to use what I had been through to help other people.
One of my greatest passions is to help people learn how to break free from strongholds and move into vibrant living. I specialize in working with people struggling with sex addiction, and their partners who have been deeply impacted by betrayal trauma.
I approach my coaching from this same holistic viewpoint that I adopted to move toward my own greater wellbeing. I provide support, guidance, and encouragement to help you examine the areas of life that are out of balance, get to the root of what is holding you back, break free from those strongholds, and move forward on your journey towards vibrant wellbeing.
It is my heart and passion to journey with clients as they move out of paralysis and into recovery and FREEDOM!
Janae Ledbetter
· ACSTH (ACC path) Certified Life Coach with the World Coaching Institute
· CFSAS trained (peer facilitator)
· BFA from Ball State University with a focus in pottery
I believe healing can come to all who seek it. My goal is to come along side those that seek healing as they process the reality that their marriage has not been what they thought it was and that their spouse has changed the rules.
I have had life drop me to my knees and have been through some very dark days but have made it to the other side. In my darkest of days after finding out about the reality of my marriage I personally experienced the benefits of coaching and know the power of healing that can come when surrounded by the right support system. After journeying through the discovery and struggle with SSA (same sex attraction) in my marriage, I realized my personal self-worth was not defined by the outcome of his struggle. And now by the grace of God, I am finding purpose in helping others on their journey to healing.
I have walked in your shoes and I understand your pain; it would be my honor to partner with you as you journey out of the darkness and into the light.
